No mistake then, last playthrough she explained exactly like this. I said I remember differently on earlier updates but I can't be sure tbh, I maybe misremembering things.
Tbh, I get the same feeling about she usually is not being in the camp, especially with Lena&Kerrek only quest. Which btw, I love it, I'd like to see more of companion only quest. Both, Elly and Lena only quests were pretty good. Second reasoning does not quite sit well with me though, maybe early in the game that would make sense but time and time again, she showed she has a knack for strategy. She is always accurate about her predictions, while it being minor things or general politics. Tbh, I really don't remember any of her prediction being inaccurate. So it's possible she'd choose bloodier paths as much as possible, she would not lead them in carnage. Which is always a positive on a war council. Though, to be fair, Seralli fill that spot as good. Also, Lena do care about Cath on friendly route and is crazy about her on love route. So if she can make Cath's life slightly easier she would not say she does not care about planning. On top of that, after Cath fell into a pit where she fought a dragon, she said
you are the commander, lead which made me believe she'd like to be more involve in decisions that may put Cath in danger. So, at least on love path, she has lots of reasons to be part of decision making. Still though, that could be explainable by Cath asking her opinion at night, so she could have more time scouting in the daytime by not making her official war council member but as an advisor. So all in all, either way works for her. What I questioned though, those Alarian&Edhelian thing was directly involves her, also her area of expertise and Lena not being involved of it, which is not a single day event, does not make sense at all. I, at least expected a small scene where she comments on it.
TLDR: I desperately need more Lena content, please gib moar.
As in no downside on all 3 options or no upside on all 3 options?