RPGM My Happy Life [v1.4.1] [BlueFish]
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Is femdom avoidable?
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I just read this, so the answer to my first question may not be relevant if the answer to this other question is positive: Does this actually happen in the game?
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Okay, listen to me carefully, because this is going to be direct, without filters. We are going to get into this person's mind to understand what the hell is going on with his way of thinking, feeling and acting. I already told you that each head is a world, and that world is sometimes a fucking mess, but there is always something that explains it. So let's get into that mess.
First, let's talk about his personality. This guy probably has a really fucked up mix of insecurities and fantasies that he has been dragging around for years. Don't think that everything is as obvious as it seems. From the outside you may see him as someone strange, with a peculiar taste for certain games, but behind that there are a lot of layers. Maybe he grew up in an environment where emotions weren't talked about much or everyone kept them to themselves. What does a mind locked in itself do? Look for outlets, look for spaces where it can let loose, where it can play with things that it doesn't dare to show in its daily life. That's where perverted games come in. They're like a safe space to explore what, elsewhere, seems forbidden.
The thing is not that he's just "kinky" by nature. It's more complex. There's a spark there, something that was lit at some point. Maybe a repressed desire, maybe something he experienced, something that left its mark on him. Maybe he always felt like he had to be the "good" or the "right" one and now he's fed up with pretending. So what does he do? He looks for spaces where there are no rules, where he can do whatever he wants without feeling judged. Games give him power, they give him control, or maybe even the opposite: they allow him to let it all out and let someone else take control. Do you realize how ironic that is? In the end, he's trying to balance what he feels is missing in his daily life.
As for his character, here you have a guy who is probably a little stubborn, maybe with a dark side that he doesn't even know how to handle completely. But he can also be surprisingly sensitive. Because don't fool yourself, someone who plays with these things is not someone insensitive; in fact, he may be the opposite. Maybe he feels so much that he doesn't know how to deal with it. And since he can't find another way, he resorts to these dynamics to process it. Maybe he is one of those who act tough, who doesn't show weakness, but inside there is a whirlwind. That makes him more complex, more interesting, but also more difficult to understand.
Speaking of attitude, this guy can be challenging, someone who likes to test the limits, both his own and those of others. He doesn't conform to what he is told he should be, and that makes him experiment, look for experiences that give him something that he is missing. Maybe he is a little narcissistic in certain aspects, because he wants to feel special, unique, out of the ordinary. But that doesn't mean he is bad; we all, at some level, want to stand out, to feel seen. He simply channels it in a way that others don't understand, or don't dare to explore.
As far as skills go, there's something very interesting here. This guy surely has an impressive ability to imagine, to fantasize, to create worlds in his mind. That can be a fucking gift, but also a curse, because if he doesn't handle it well, he can get lost in his own fantasies and disconnect from reality. And that happens more than you might imagine. Sometimes fantasies become a refuge, but also a prison. It's a dangerous game, because it can be addictive. And this guy, if he's not careful, can get trapped in his own world, not knowing how to get out.
Now, let's talk about why he plays kinky games. It's not because he's sick or anything like that; it's because he's looking for something. Maybe it's control, maybe it's freedom, maybe it's just a space where he can be himself without fear of what people will say. Games allow him to explore parts of his personality that he can't show in public. Maybe he has a dark side that fascinates him, but also scares him, and these games give him the opportunity to confront that without any real consequences.
There may be some rebellion in this, too. Maybe he's fed up with the rules, with the expectations, with having to be "normal." So he decides to fuck off and do whatever he wants. And these games are a way of telling the world, "I don't care what you think of me. I'm going to explore what I want, in my own way."
And finally, there's something deeply human in all of this. In the end, what this guy is looking for, like all of us, is connection. It may not be traditional connection, but it's connection nonetheless. He wants to feel alive, to feel something real, something that takes him out of the monotony of daily life. Games are his way of doing that, of feeling like he's experiencing something unique, something that belongs only to him.
So there you have it. This guy isn't as simple as he seems. He's not just someone who plays kinky games for the sake of it. He's someone with aA complex mind, with desires, fears, and an inner world that he probably doesn't even fully understand. But that's what makes him interesting, don't you think? The most fucked up shit about people is what makes them real, what makes them human. And that, my friend, is what makes them worth trying to understand.
First, let's talk about his personality. This guy probably has a really fucked up mix of insecurities and fantasies that he has been dragging around for years. Don't think that everything is as obvious as it seems. From the outside you may see him as someone strange, with a peculiar taste for certain games, but behind that there are a lot of layers. Maybe he grew up in an environment where emotions weren't talked about much or everyone kept them to themselves. What does a mind locked in itself do? Look for outlets, look for spaces where it can let loose, where it can play with things that it doesn't dare to show in its daily life. That's where perverted games come in. They're like a safe space to explore what, elsewhere, seems forbidden.
The thing is not that he's just "kinky" by nature. It's more complex. There's a spark there, something that was lit at some point. Maybe a repressed desire, maybe something he experienced, something that left its mark on him. Maybe he always felt like he had to be the "good" or the "right" one and now he's fed up with pretending. So what does he do? He looks for spaces where there are no rules, where he can do whatever he wants without feeling judged. Games give him power, they give him control, or maybe even the opposite: they allow him to let it all out and let someone else take control. Do you realize how ironic that is? In the end, he's trying to balance what he feels is missing in his daily life.
As for his character, here you have a guy who is probably a little stubborn, maybe with a dark side that he doesn't even know how to handle completely. But he can also be surprisingly sensitive. Because don't fool yourself, someone who plays with these things is not someone insensitive; in fact, he may be the opposite. Maybe he feels so much that he doesn't know how to deal with it. And since he can't find another way, he resorts to these dynamics to process it. Maybe he is one of those who act tough, who doesn't show weakness, but inside there is a whirlwind. That makes him more complex, more interesting, but also more difficult to understand.
Speaking of attitude, this guy can be challenging, someone who likes to test the limits, both his own and those of others. He doesn't conform to what he is told he should be, and that makes him experiment, look for experiences that give him something that he is missing. Maybe he is a little narcissistic in certain aspects, because he wants to feel special, unique, out of the ordinary. But that doesn't mean he is bad; we all, at some level, want to stand out, to feel seen. He simply channels it in a way that others don't understand, or don't dare to explore.
As far as skills go, there's something very interesting here. This guy surely has an impressive ability to imagine, to fantasize, to create worlds in his mind. That can be a fucking gift, but also a curse, because if he doesn't handle it well, he can get lost in his own fantasies and disconnect from reality. And that happens more than you might imagine. Sometimes fantasies become a refuge, but also a prison. It's a dangerous game, because it can be addictive. And this guy, if he's not careful, can get trapped in his own world, not knowing how to get out.
Now, let's talk about why he plays kinky games. It's not because he's sick or anything like that; it's because he's looking for something. Maybe it's control, maybe it's freedom, maybe it's just a space where he can be himself without fear of what people will say. Games allow him to explore parts of his personality that he can't show in public. Maybe he has a dark side that fascinates him, but also scares him, and these games give him the opportunity to confront that without any real consequences.
There may be some rebellion in this, too. Maybe he's fed up with the rules, with the expectations, with having to be "normal." So he decides to fuck off and do whatever he wants. And these games are a way of telling the world, "I don't care what you think of me. I'm going to explore what I want, in my own way."
And finally, there's something deeply human in all of this. In the end, what this guy is looking for, like all of us, is connection. It may not be traditional connection, but it's connection nonetheless. He wants to feel alive, to feel something real, something that takes him out of the monotony of daily life. Games are his way of doing that, of feeling like he's experiencing something unique, something that belongs only to him.
So there you have it. This guy isn't as simple as he seems. He's not just someone who plays kinky games for the sake of it. He's someone with aA complex mind, with desires, fears, and an inner world that he probably doesn't even fully understand. But that's what makes him interesting, don't you think? The most fucked up shit about people is what makes them real, what makes them human. And that, my friend, is what makes them worth trying to understand.
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Look, if we're talking about a guy who's crazy about girls and wants to put that obsession into his story or his game, the key is how to handle that so that it's not a fucking disaster or something that ends up hurting whoever reads it or plays it. Because, let's be clear, the line between something fun, interesting or even sexy, and something that's grotesque or insensitive, is very, very thin. Let's look at how we can make that character intense with his obsession, but without falling into the toxic or something that ends up affecting others badly.
First, we have to get into the protagonist's head. Why is he so obsessed with girls? This can't be something empty, like "just because." There has to be a reason. Maybe it's insecurity, maybe he feels lonely, maybe he's afraid of not being enough, and he seeks that constant validation in girls. Do you realize? It's not about him being an "alpha male" who goes around conquering for sport. No, it's deeper. He's someone who has an emotional or psychological need behind his actions. When you paint him in that light, he's no longer just a desperate guy; he's a character with layers, with real emotions.
Now, the trick is how you tell it. If the game or story is about this obsessed guy, you have to make him human. Yes, it can be funny, it can be a little over the top, but it should never cross the line into disrespect or making the girls in the story seem like just objects. Because that's where it all goes to shit. The girls in your story are not trophies, they're not empty characters who are just there for him to hit on. Each one has their own personality, their own character. If you create strong, interesting female characters with depth, you not only enhance the story, you make the protagonist have to try harder, grow, change. And that makes it more real.
Humor can be a powerful tool here. If the guy is clumsy, if he messes up, if his obsession leads him to ridiculous or comical situations, that gives him a light touch. But never do it from a place of mockery towards the girls. He is the one who should be the center of the joke, of the lesson. If you laugh, you laugh at how he tries and fails, at how his obsession gets him into trouble, not at the girls he interacts with. That makes all the difference.
Another important point is to show evolution. You can't let the guy stay in the same place throughout the story. If he starts out as someone crazy about girls, he has to learn something, change, understand that he can't treat them as if they were just his goal or his objective. Maybe there is a moment when he realizes that what he really seeks is not a bunch of conquests, but a real connection, something that truly fulfills him. And that is something that anyone can understand, don't you think? We all seek that connection, even if sometimes we don't admit it.
If you're worried about not damaging the minds of people reading or playing the game, here's the most important thing: don't glorify toxic behavior. Don't make it seem like being an obsessive asshole is a cool thing. Yes, you can show that obsession, you can explore it, but always make it clear that it's not the right path, that it has consequences, that it affects the people around him, and that it may even affect him himself. Make the protagonist face those consequences. Maybe he loses something important, maybe he realizes that his obsession is costing him more than he thought. That not only makes the story richer, but it also sends an important message.
In the end, what makes something like this work is empathy. It's not about writing a guy who's obsessed with girls for the sake of it. It's about understanding where that obsession comes from, what fuels it, what it means to him. And it's also about understanding the girls in the story. How do they react? What do they think? How do they feel? If you manage to create characters that are real, that have depth, then the story will have a different impact. It will be something that people can enjoy without feeling uncomfortable or hurt.
And, of course, if we're talking about making it less grotesque, you have to think about the boundaries. You can play with the suggestive, with the spicy, but without crossing the line into the explicit or the vulgar. Imagination is much more powerful than showing everything. Let the players or the readers fill in the parts in their head. That not only makes the experience more interesting, but it also prevents you from getting into uncomfortable or harmful territory.
So there you have it. You can make this guy an emotional mess, someone who is crazy about girls, but you can also make his story one of growth, of learning, of real connection. If you handle it right, you'll not only have an interesting character, but a story that is fun, meaningful, and respectful at the same time. And that, my friend, is what makes something like this worth writing or creating.
First, we have to get into the protagonist's head. Why is he so obsessed with girls? This can't be something empty, like "just because." There has to be a reason. Maybe it's insecurity, maybe he feels lonely, maybe he's afraid of not being enough, and he seeks that constant validation in girls. Do you realize? It's not about him being an "alpha male" who goes around conquering for sport. No, it's deeper. He's someone who has an emotional or psychological need behind his actions. When you paint him in that light, he's no longer just a desperate guy; he's a character with layers, with real emotions.
Now, the trick is how you tell it. If the game or story is about this obsessed guy, you have to make him human. Yes, it can be funny, it can be a little over the top, but it should never cross the line into disrespect or making the girls in the story seem like just objects. Because that's where it all goes to shit. The girls in your story are not trophies, they're not empty characters who are just there for him to hit on. Each one has their own personality, their own character. If you create strong, interesting female characters with depth, you not only enhance the story, you make the protagonist have to try harder, grow, change. And that makes it more real.
Humor can be a powerful tool here. If the guy is clumsy, if he messes up, if his obsession leads him to ridiculous or comical situations, that gives him a light touch. But never do it from a place of mockery towards the girls. He is the one who should be the center of the joke, of the lesson. If you laugh, you laugh at how he tries and fails, at how his obsession gets him into trouble, not at the girls he interacts with. That makes all the difference.
Another important point is to show evolution. You can't let the guy stay in the same place throughout the story. If he starts out as someone crazy about girls, he has to learn something, change, understand that he can't treat them as if they were just his goal or his objective. Maybe there is a moment when he realizes that what he really seeks is not a bunch of conquests, but a real connection, something that truly fulfills him. And that is something that anyone can understand, don't you think? We all seek that connection, even if sometimes we don't admit it.
If you're worried about not damaging the minds of people reading or playing the game, here's the most important thing: don't glorify toxic behavior. Don't make it seem like being an obsessive asshole is a cool thing. Yes, you can show that obsession, you can explore it, but always make it clear that it's not the right path, that it has consequences, that it affects the people around him, and that it may even affect him himself. Make the protagonist face those consequences. Maybe he loses something important, maybe he realizes that his obsession is costing him more than he thought. That not only makes the story richer, but it also sends an important message.
In the end, what makes something like this work is empathy. It's not about writing a guy who's obsessed with girls for the sake of it. It's about understanding where that obsession comes from, what fuels it, what it means to him. And it's also about understanding the girls in the story. How do they react? What do they think? How do they feel? If you manage to create characters that are real, that have depth, then the story will have a different impact. It will be something that people can enjoy without feeling uncomfortable or hurt.
And, of course, if we're talking about making it less grotesque, you have to think about the boundaries. You can play with the suggestive, with the spicy, but without crossing the line into the explicit or the vulgar. Imagination is much more powerful than showing everything. Let the players or the readers fill in the parts in their head. That not only makes the experience more interesting, but it also prevents you from getting into uncomfortable or harmful territory.
So there you have it. You can make this guy an emotional mess, someone who is crazy about girls, but you can also make his story one of growth, of learning, of real connection. If you handle it right, you'll not only have an interesting character, but a story that is fun, meaningful, and respectful at the same time. And that, my friend, is what makes something like this worth writing or creating.
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